Parenting orders provide stability, but life changes. Children grow, work schedules shift, and practical realities can evolve. The key is understanding when changes can be made by agreement — and when Court involvement may be required.
Start with agreement (where possible)
If both parents agree, updated arrangements may be recorded in a parenting plan or formalised as new consent orders. This is often the least stressful pathway.
When the Court may reconsider parenting orders
Courts generally require a significant change in circumstances to revisit parenting orders, to avoid repeated litigation. What counts depends on the facts, but the focus is usually on the child’s welfare and practicality.
Examples of changes that may matter
- A child’s needs change significantly (health, schooling, developmental needs)
- Relocation that affects time arrangements
- New work schedules making the current orders impractical
- Safety concerns that arise or escalate
- Persistent non-compliance with orders affecting stability
Practical steps before making changes
- Document the issue (dates, impacts on the child, and what has been tried)
- Consider a structured discussion or mediation
- Keep the child’s routine and wellbeing at the centre of proposals
- Seek advice early if safety is a concern