Family Law

What Happens If Parenting Orders Are Breached?

When orders aren’t followed, it can be distressing. Here’s how breaches are handled and what options exist.

22 July 2025 · 7 min read

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Parenting orders are legally binding. When they are not followed, it can create confusion, frustration, and emotional strain — particularly for children. Many parents want to know what counts as a breach and what options are available.

What counts as a breach?

A breach generally involves intentionally not complying with orders without a reasonable excuse. Whether a situation is a breach depends on the specific wording of the orders and what happened in practice.

Common examples

  • Refusing to facilitate time with the other parent without a valid reason
  • Repeatedly returning a child late or not attending changeovers
  • Withholding important information (schooling, medical issues) where orders require sharing
  • Interfering with a child’s communication when orders provide for it

Possible outcomes if a breach is proved

  • Make-up time
  • Orders to attend parenting or compliance programs
  • Fines or costs orders
  • Changes to parenting orders in serious cases

Practical steps to take first

  • Check the exact wording of the orders (small details matter).
  • Record what occurred (dates, messages, practical impacts on the child).
  • Try a calm written approach where safe (misunderstandings happen).
  • Consider mediation or structured communication tools if appropriate.

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