Parenting orders are legally binding. When they are not followed, it can create confusion, frustration, and emotional strain — particularly for children. Many parents want to know what counts as a breach and what options are available.
What counts as a breach?
A breach generally involves intentionally not complying with orders without a reasonable excuse. Whether a situation is a breach depends on the specific wording of the orders and what happened in practice.
Common examples
- Refusing to facilitate time with the other parent without a valid reason
- Repeatedly returning a child late or not attending changeovers
- Withholding important information (schooling, medical issues) where orders require sharing
- Interfering with a child’s communication when orders provide for it
Possible outcomes if a breach is proved
- Make-up time
- Orders to attend parenting or compliance programs
- Fines or costs orders
- Changes to parenting orders in serious cases
Practical steps to take first
- Check the exact wording of the orders (small details matter).
- Record what occurred (dates, messages, practical impacts on the child).
- Try a calm written approach where safe (misunderstandings happen).
- Consider mediation or structured communication tools if appropriate.
