When parents reach agreement about children, it can feel like the hardest part is done. The next question is whether you should formalise the agreement — or keep things informal.
Parenting plan vs consent orders (in plain terms)
A parenting plan is flexible and can be updated easily. Consent orders are approved by the Court and become legally binding. The right option depends on trust, stability, and how likely disputes are to return.
When consent orders can help even if you agree
- You want enforceability and clear rules
- Past agreements have broken down
- There is a high-conflict history
- You want certainty around holidays, travel, or schooling
- A new partner or relocation may complicate future expectations
Frequently asked questions
Do consent orders mean we’ll be in court?
Often no. Many consent order applications are dealt with on the papers without a hearing.
Can we change consent orders later?
Yes, but it usually requires agreement or further legal steps. That’s part of the trade-off: certainty vs flexibility.
This article is general information and not legal advice.